Có quá đáng không khi tôi nói muốn quay lại để yêu anh thêm lần nữa? Nếu thế tôi sẽ phải chống đỡ lại cả gia đình.

Tôi 24 tuổi, yêu anh 3 năm từ hồi là sinh viên. Gia đình tôi biết nhà anh ấy ở xa, hoàn cảnh lại phức tạp nên không thích tôi qua lại với anh. Mẹ tôi là người lam lũ, vất vả cả một đời nên tôi không muốn trở thành đứa bất hiếu, không nghe lời bố mẹ. Học xong đại học, tôi ra nước ngoài làm việc một năm. Nhân cơ hội đi xa, tôi đã nói lời chia tay. Vì tôi biết khi ở gần anh, tôi sẽ không đủ lý trí để xa anh dù trong lòng luôn tự nhủ trước sau cũng phải chia tay.

Gần một năm sau, tôi về nước. Trong suốt quãng thời gian đó, tôi không có quan hệ yêu đương với ai. Gặp ai cũng không có cảm giác. Giờ tôi đã có công việc tương đối ổn định. Dạo gần đây, tôi hay lục lại ảnh của anh, kỷ niệm ngày còn yêu nhau cứ thế tràn về. Tôi thấy mình thật nhẫn tâm khi đối xử với anh như vậy. Tôi cũng nhắn tin xin lỗi anh vì cảm thấy có lỗi, cảm giác như mình đã đánh mất đi cả tuổi trẻ.

Giờ anh quen với cuộc sống mới không có tôi bên cạnh, anh cũng có người yêu rồi. Năm sau anh sẽ ra nước ngoài học tập và làm việc, giờ tôi lại muốn buông bỏ mọi thứ để theo anh. Có quá đáng không khi tôi nói muốn quay lại để yêu anh thêm lần nữa? Nếu yêu anh có lẽ tôi sẽ phải tự mình chống đỡ lại cả gia đình. Liệu rằng tôi có ích kỷ quá không khi làm như vậy?

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  1. #83 – Isn’t that the heart of the problem? We’ve discussed this before, lots. Property prices increased, wages didn’t.Not very long ago (into late 2k1 in fact***)you could find houses for those prices. It may not have been the best neighborhood, or all that modern, but it was possible.By the time we hit 2k6 houses in Keansburg were being priced at 250K+. *** – It was getting hard to do so, however.

  2. You are correct of course but this test is for all the people who think they will make it into Heaven on a scale of “goodness”. The test just illustrates what would qualify a person as being good enough in Gods eyes to get into Heaven according to His standard. You must be perfect in thoughts, words and deeds from birth to death with zero flaws. It is an impossible standard to meet on a scale of “goodness” and that is the whole point. Without Jesus, there is NO HOPE for salvation at all for any human.

  3. See if you can find a local community centre (maybe one that helps those with special needs) that might appreciate you taking some happy snaps of those less fortunate individuals that don’t have much to be happy about. Maybe somewhere in a local park is a nice setting.Not everyone has the opportunity to feel good about themselves and your good deed could possibly brighten the day for a whole bunch of people.

  4. Tell me what the difference is between the guy in Yemen that our government keeps trying to assassinate, and Basher of Asses? Is it because the guy in Yemen is less effective in prosecuting a terror war against the US and its allies and is being punished for his relative ineffectiveness? Maybe the guy in Yemen needs to get his act together. If he can prove himself more capable, maybe our government will turn its attention on [Assad].

  5. Le cas de la memoire de l’eau comme celui des tests sur les rats montre aussi qu’on ferait bien, en dehors de la medecine, d’utiliser le double aveugle.Sur des bestiolles aussi sensibles (notamment a la qualite et a la quantite de nourriture) je pense qu’il faudrait que les observateurs (et l’animalerie) ne soient tout simplement pas du tout au courrant de l’echantillon sur lequel ils travaillent.

  6. Ok, I just gut it and I have BUNCH OF PROBLEMS;1) Where are the stars?!What shold it be, this "I like it" "Don't like it" I want normal stars, it was much better, two choices are too less!!!2) Auto-playing sucks! It doesn't matter that I switch it off, because with openieng every single video the "ON" option returns and I have to switch it off every single time! I dosn't make sense! 3)While embeding a video a whole playlist gets there, although I want to embed ONE VIDEO ONLY!!!Beg you to fix it soon!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  12. 1) I share Paul Green’s doubt about a “slow and imperceptible” collapse after the Obammunists come to power.2) There’s a simple test of freedom that Denmark and most European countries fail: can one legally own a gun for self-defense? Of course, after Lord Obama assumes power, America might fail the test as well.

  13. who don’t bother to study and monitor stock and handle their speculations themselves have no business investing. When I do it myself I take a risk but I’m willing to gamble on myself, no way I’m going to take that kind of chance on a stock jockey who got his desk by completing a fairly standard education.Especially not one who earns his profit on transaction commissions and needs to unload all of his merchandise, thereby creating a conflict of interest.

  14. “Why, in 2005, are we creating “inventory” of a digital good that can then be returned and cause an earnings miss?”I could not agree more. The idea of putting 1′s and 0′s onto a piece of plastic, pacaging them into a box, and then shipping them throughout the world always seemed ridiculous to me. With the broadband infrastructure we’ve had in place for the past 8 years or so, there is simply no excuse for this.

  15. I can see from Russell Dee’s comment that this whole Romney tax thing has evolved into full fledged liberal looney conspiracy territory. I guess the 9/11 Truther crowd needed something else to focus their attention towards.Can I play?I think Mitt Romney’s taxes show that he tried to deduct his secret midget mud wrestling tournaments he held at his mansion. Oh, and he tried to deduct his baby seal hunting expeditions with Rick Santorum. Also, Mitt doesn’t look like he gets much sun. I think he’s a vampire.

  16. stunnerrockerI heard a news about muslim raping Sweden women. Please update me, what’s happening, I’m really concerned, are the police doing something? Arresting the bad muslims? Are the Sweden women okay now? I mean I’m really bothered , I cant find any good news about Sweden women, like they are being took care of, safe etc. What are Sweden man/boys doing to protect their women from this muslim? Are they defending them? Please update me. Thank you

  17. , I think this article did not take the German material seriously enough and did not explore it so well as might be done. Consequently, other contradictory evidence for usage of the flat for Versetzen (interception) has been forgotten or dismissed.Hence its argument is “Italianated”, as Master Silver might call it. (Hah!)Aside from that, it is a pretty good article and it makes an argument worth considering.

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  20. Nice behind the scenes look. Lol Del Monte sliced pears . Is that just used to hold the paper (fill light reflector I guess) thing?The way you positioned some things, like the key light, and took the picture made the behind the scenes look like a real photo shoot. Pretty cool.But what’s with the censoring? Are they becoming the newer SFW articles? I know if you click on the picture, it shows the non-censored shot though.

  21. Bring LittleKuriboh Back!As a yugioh fan, the show is little more than an expensive card game advertisement. One I find most entertaining. But on topic, as far as I've understood it, I thought that if you made money on something that wasn't your creation, then it was breaking the law. But no one makes any money what-so-ever, so I don't understand how anything can be deleted per those laws.

  22. Gli scontri puerili che avvengono in rete a mio giudizio sono figli del fatto che la nostra identità in rete è artificiale (non perchè si esprime in rete, ma perchè in rete la costruiamo, decidendo come esistere, quando e dove). Questa contrapposizione forzata che si riflette nell’incredibile litigiosità della Blogosfera è utile a far esistere i nostri personaggi, ed a renderli interessanti. Riflettono un esercizio di narrazione, più che di comunicazione.

  23. Ciao,ho provato ad applicare la patch ma non ha funzionato.Ho provato su un Magento ho notato che il file che indichi di duplicare (Collection.php) è vuoto o meglio ha solo la creazione della classe:class Mage_Catalog_Model_Resource_Eav_Mysql4_Product_Collection extends Mage_Catalog_Model_Resource_Product_Collection{}Qualche consiglio? E’ un problema di versione di Magento?Grazie

  24. Pt. Ana Maria – din ce ai enumerat tu ca si modele de centrale din orasul tau nu prea e nici o marca cat de cat buna. Modelele de 24kw se fac ieftine si proaste ca sa se vanda. Daca totusi nu as avea de ales as merge pe Ariston, dar nu modelul BISS 2, ci GENUS.Pt. Dana – Ferroli este o marca medie de centrale termice, nu sunt printre cele mai bune, dar nici slabe nu sunt, marca italiana, fabricata in Italia, dar care nu se poate compara cu cele germane.1f69

  25. Hola Amparo,Mi corazón se enternece y alegra con lo que me escribes. Con respecto al material, estoy trabajando asiduamente traduciendo las creaciones de Colin Tipping con su permiso, y progresivamente iré anunciando lo que se vuelve disponible a través del boletín. Paciencia porque hay mucho y muy buen material y traducirlo toma su tiempo y su volumen de cariño también.De todas maneras te recomiendo aprovechar cualquier oportunidad de tener la vivencia del Perdón Radical con alguno de los eventos que vamos organizando.Un fuerte abrazo,Lola

  26. Les Digital Natives sont des personnes toujours connectées au net. Pourquoi ce phénomène? Aujourd’hui, nous ne pouvons nous passer de faire des achats sur internet, de vérifier nos mails sur notre smartphone, ou encore de lire un livre sur une tablette.L’évolution de la technologie et des moyens de communication nous influencent tous, mais plus particulièrement les jeunes qui sont nés avec Internet.

  27. Grazie Erica e Carlo per aver accolto la proposta di Ester della mini-votazione tra noi partecipanti. Personalmente la trovo molto sensata. Per quanto riguarda la sospensione del concorso, a mio parere non la farei. Sarà interessante vedere quale figurino affiancherà quello dell’ormai certo vincitore del concorso. Miki, io Primavera032 non l’avrei votata in ogni caso

  28. AnonymousMay 20, 2006 at 9:31 pmAs a lifelong Liverpool fan who was at Cardiff to celebrate our own messiah Stevie G last weekend I am pleased to see Henry sign up again – he truly is world class and would love him in our side – unlucky last week we were all behind you and I personaly thought you deserved to win it a couple of seasons ago when your football was quite simply breathtaking – good luck for the future in your new home – as long as you finish behind us of course !!

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  32. …ay…me perdí el concurso…me lo perdí…pero ando loca y sin tiempo para nada…no puede ver las últimas pistas, pero con esto denota lo inculta que soy, porque con las que llevaba no lo adiviné, bueno, en otra ocasión ;)Por cierto, como siempre, no sabía que existía el esmaltado permanente…y estoy por probarlo, porque no me duran ni medio día..Un saludo!!!!

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  34. “2.Domestic broadband similar to what taxpayer dollars already paid the telcos for more than 10 years ago.”Unfortunately there’s not a practical way to address point #2. And at least Verizon made a capex leap when it started the FiOS roll-out. The telecoms have some unsavory history, but I do give Verizon credit for spending on fiber at a time when investors would have preferred otherwise.

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  36. I'm a big ol' gay and would love to see more of EVERYone sharing love… not just boys and girls, girls and girls, or boys and boys… the variety IS the unexplainable of love and makes it exciting and heartwarming to see in beautiful photos no matter who is in them. BUT. OF. COURSE. people enjoy seeing themselves reflected in a post such as this though… its about LOVE… everyone wants love.

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  42. Re: But, in the long run, Harvard will get away with lots of stuff that FDNY wouldn't dream of trying, because it's Harvard.Yes, and maybe if the Republicans identified their enemies (institutions of higher ed) with their potential friends (white blue collar workers) and actually imposed the former's own policies upon them, while slackening them in the case of the latter, they might win elections.You never know…

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  44. aww, Gwyn…hugs! Didn’t some of the most prolific, talented artists battle depression?? Michelangelo, Van Gogh,….. Just know you are not alone. You have so many friends and family that love you and are keeping you in thoughts and prayers! Also, not to “preach”, but the Bible has much to say about fear and anxiety …might be worth a look. AND I love your cat!

  45. I love this post – but then I would, wouldn't I? Being firmly in the Bah Humbug camp!You look amazing, the tank top from Helga with its crazy horses looks superb with that hat and frock, and your mum's jewellery is just fabulous.I really adore the tequilla-induced Twinkle Eye photo – you look such a naughty minx!xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  46. a lot of very sensible stuff.I’ve never played rugby or football (after all, I am a girl)but in hockey it just never occurred to us to argue with the ref. Same in tennis. Even if a ball was obviously called wrong, you did what you were told.Perhaps a difference of generation, I don’t know, but I am sure that the game of football would be better off if the crap about referreeing decisions was dealt with behind closed doors. The Medja must take some responsibility for the current state of things.

  47. 私は1人で働きながら、子供を育てているのよ。あなたは妹だし、こんなに大変な思いをしているのを分かってくれているわよね?毎回母には頼めないし、週末位よろしくね!って所でしょうか?私は妹がいますが、息子が小さい頃面倒を見てもらう時には、少ないですがアルバイトとして預かってもらっていました。お互い子育て中で、働きたくても働けない妹には、ちょっとした喜びになっていたと思います。姉妹でも当然の心遣いだと思います。妊娠中で、育児中で、更にはお仕事もされているのに、折角のお休み中に甥っ子さんとご自分の子育て…何かあってからでは遅いですし、いつまでもこのまま対応出来る事ではないのではないでしょうか?他人なのに言い方が悪いかも知れませんが、自分を被害者だと思い込まれているであろうお姉様に、ちゃんとお話された方が良いと思います。子供を見てもらってて、お金を払わないのもおかしいと思いますし、連絡がないで足を運ばれる事も、今後ご出産された後も同じ様にされても困るのではないでしょうか?子供を預かるのであれば、事前に連絡をもらう事、時間はきっかり守ってもらう事、何より民間の保育園などで預けるのを基準にお金を頂く事も検討される事をお勧めします。きっと言われなければ気が付かないタイプか、言われなければ良いかな?というタイプかでしょう。お母様も大変かと思いますので、やはり他人にお金を払って見て貰うのがベストかと思いますがいかがでしょう?無事にご出産の日を迎えられる事を、お祈りしております。

  48. "Romney lost because he's a transparant political robot (which may be a Mormon thing) and cause George Bush was the biggest schmuck in the history of the presidency. We're better off this way. You all know this."Yeah, but admit it, it would have been fun to watch the Uppity One take a well deserved twenty lashes.


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